Dear ABBY: My 18-year-old stepdaughter has decided to date another woman. She has dated boys in the past, but that’s not the problem. We have nothing against the LGBTQ community. (My husband’s brother is gay.)
My issue is, should my stepmom spend time with her girlfriend in the bedroom with the door closed?
If this was a boy, my husband would certainly have a problem with it – fear of sexual activity leading to pregnancy.
We’re both old for this, but we’ve embraced her new relationship. But we definitely don’t want our home to be the hotspot. It makes us feel comfortable.
How should we handle this? – THE OPEN DOOR IN PENNSYLVANIA
DEAR OPEN DOOR: Treat this the same way you would if you were writing about the young woman who has a boyfriend.
Tell her that you are uncomfortable with sexual activity taking place in your home and prefer that if she entertains her girlfriend in her bedroom, she should leave the door open.
Dear ABBY: My husband and I recently moved to a smaller town from a large city to be closer to our new grandfather.
This town is populated with a large number of single older women and, since day one, they have been attracted in droves to my husband, who is a very handsome older man.
These women act like I’m not even there. They move very close to us while we are shopping and flirt with him. I have had to physically get between one of them and my husband on several occasions.
Not only is this annoying while it’s happening, but I have a hard time making friends.
More than one friend has had an unhealthy crush on him, so I don’t trust other women anymore. What do I do? – WOMEN ONLY IN VERMONT
DEAR WOMAN: You will have to decide to what degree you trust your man so that he does not lose and focus your efforts on friendship with others doubles.
It would also be nice if your husband could remind these women that he is married and that you are there.
Dear ABBY: My wife went on vacation with her best friend. While there, they visited a nudist resort. She admitted that she took off her bathing suit and went swimming. Her friend did too.
I was irritated to think that she would strip in front of strangers. I feel betrayed. It makes me sick to my stomach to think she did this to me.
Am I wrong to be anxious and angry about the situation? — WEARING IN MAINE
DEAR DRESSED: I would need to know more about the clothing optional resort your wife and her friend visited.
The nudist lifestyle is not a lively weekend for singles. Whole families often enjoy it and the atmosphere is healthy.
Please come off the defensive and ask your wife to tell you more about her “adventure”, which may have been nothing more than innocent fun and has nothing to do with you.
You don’t “own” her body, only her heart – if you’re lucky.
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